He’s Nonetheless productive from the dating internet site. Should This Hassle Myself?

Reader Question:

I’ve been seeing he for approximately three months now. We met on the internet and just lately made a decision to maybe not see other individuals. We actually take pleasure in both and just starting to present our households.

He’s however effective in the dating website we met from. The guy admitted to using relaxed talks nonetheless from time to time. I’m not a jealous or insecure individual, but it has style of hit me completely wrong.

Should this bother me personally?

-Ayra (North Carolina)

Dr. Wendy Walsh’s Response:


Should this frustrate you? Completely! They are nonetheless playing the field on the internet and trying to find a bigger, much better price.

I believe you ought to phone his bluff. Tell him their words of exclusivity imply nothing if he or she is however single on line. Suggest that you two transferred to fast and simply tell him you are very happy to go back online also, if the guy believes remaining solitary is perfect.

Oh, and one more thing, stop making love with him.

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